Let us be very clear : LETTING GO IS NOT COMPLETELY FORGETTING BUT ACCEPTING AND MOVING ON!
You will never riposte when your Past calls you cause it has nothing new to say to you and it will jog your memories to bad feelings lane.
Don’t judge anyone by their Past as they do not live there anymore. Most importantly , Let go difficult things even if it is difficult to let it go.
Life is beautiful and we have to have a balance of Holding on Goodies and Letting Go the baddies but we rather hold to Past and grudges and Letting go of happy moments to come.
Following the 9 steps on Letting go will aid us to better existence of ourselves.
Rewind : For once and for all , dig deepest to the wound that keeps coming back to you just like a boomerang and rethink but in a different way to find a solution of letting the past or an issue. Clear misunderstandings with yourself in a peaceful way by accepting one’s own mistakes.
Jot it Down : Jot down the things you wanted to tell to them or yourself on a blank page without qualms. After its jotted you will feel free of load on your chest.
Bird View : Look at the matter like a bird , who is just passing by and stops by to look at you and your problem .The bird will be Neutral to the approach while looking at who is wrong and right. Many a times we end up thinking we are right and we are not sorry for wrongs we do and end up not letting Go at all. Looking from a bird view helps us to realise about our mistakes too.
Emphasize on Idealism : There are so many things going in life always at any given point of time. But its never solely about the rights and wrongs , the goods and bad things. It is about being Ideal and just. Dealing our past wounds with justice in judgment helps us go a long way.
Justice in Judging: Judging Is never wrong but injustice in judgement is. You can judge wrong and clamp grudges and writhe lifelong. Opening the knots of wrong judgements and replacing with right judgements help us lead a better state of mind.
What and Who Matters : Going through wound and sorting the pain has never been easy but the question you ask yourself does the trick. You can always ask yourself What matters more? The pain or the person . At end of every story of Pain you either get a good Friend in that person or a good lesson from that person. And you can let go easily and in most concrete way.
Forgiveness : It is best thing you can do all your life. Forgiving comes with best of understanding things and people. Apprehend the situation from other persons point of view and the forgiving comes definitely.
Self Love: Self love is best medicine to prevent loneliness. When you love youself and have let go. The people around you are happy with happy vibes. Pamper yourself .
Gratitude: Gratitude is forgotten deed by many.To be grateful is to be thanking each and every blessing.If we are busy counting blessings there is hardly a chance to hold on to something which cannot be let go.
LET GO,LET GOD.SUCH A POWERFUL MESSAGE IN JUST 4 WORDS.
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